Just found out she already filed

[kat727]

I was a child that was always trying to keep the peace. Up until the divorce, I had the hardest time telling my dad that he had hurt my feelings and while I appreciated his concern I really, did not need to hear him put me down. (He actually said that since I had the kids, I let myself go, I wasn't hot any more and that may have contributed to my ex leaving.)

So try not to have her become a peace maker. She needs to feel comfortable with both of you and to be able to express herself with both of you.

kat