DQ, thank you so much for your long and thoughtful post. I had no idea you followed my sitch! It does make me hopeful; I see so much potential in my daughter if only she didn't have such an uphill battle right now.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012