I know that this is the most insane post on the site right now. Quick refresh, we have divorced twice, broke up in January but was not married then, I started dating several girls much younger than me which hurt my ex pretty bad, I even let one live with me for a couple of weeks, she lived with her parents, we tried to work it out, went on a trip in May, great trip and said that we would get married again but she didn't believe that I was going to because i put it off for over a year before, because she had been wanting me to marry her, her dad got sick and she went to Austin in june, dad's friend gave her some pills and she started taking them everyday again. She has had a pill problem most of our marriage. We had a small arguement and I called her an idiot. She met a guy and married him after knowing him for a couple of weeks. She got married and got straight on a plane and came home for doctors appointment. I found out about marrige and was shocked, this was not like her at all, we are not jerry springer people(or we didn't use to be) We spent three days together and she said she screwed up and would get it annulled that she didnt know what she had done. We made love a couple of times, I bought her a bunch of clothes, we fought a lot about this new marriage. she wanted me to quit my jobs and move to austin, i can't, her parents got mad at her and told her she had to leave because of the pills that she was on, she stays up all night, they put her on a plane and sent her to new husband. I called and begged her to come back, she said she was happy and wanted to start her new life so I left her alone. 5 days later she calls crying saying that she made the biggest mistake of her life and that I would never forgive her and that she loved me. I told her I already did forgive her and begged her to come home or I would go get her, she did not come, saying that she was scared that i would be mean to her and things would go back to the way we used to live(fighting) i texted her like 10 times telling her how much she meant to me. She calls two days later(today) crying and saying she had no money for cigs or anything, new husband has 3 kids and she says she is just his maid and that they don't talk or show any affection and that she is miserable, she asks me to please send her money, i refuse at first and then i send her some, not nearly as much as she wanted, I text and call her a ton after this, she is crying and saying that I am pressuring her but that she loves me but that I deserve better and I should just move on. I told her I had a right to know her plans, she said she was not going to stay that she didn't even know this guy and they always fighting which I know is true. She text me not to call or text her anymore so I call and ask her what that meant-she said that it just means today not ever. Her husband gets little mad when she talks to me understandably and he is home at night. She said she was not happy. So, I didn't text or call anymore tonight and don't plan on answering anymore of her calls, just let them go to voice mail. I think I have to stay out of it until she leaves him, which hell she might not ever do but I really think that she will. That is pretty much the story up til now. Stupid I know but this girl was very much in love with me in May, I am pretty sure that she did. She was not cheating with this guy. She really did not know him. There is no way they could have know each other. No possible way. I think, and you aren't suppose to read minds-that she was so sick of getting hurt by me that she thought if she just married someone else that we would quit breaking up and getting back together and that it was some sort of closure for her. I know she regrets getting married to him but I don't think that she thought I was the right guy to marry either even though she says that she wants to be with me soon. Well, I told her i would come get her but she declined. She thinks that I am that bad to her.
