Yes he isn't ready. You can tell from one simple thing...no remorse. He hasn't apologized or made any effort to amend what he had done. He is still in the blaming stage where you are the root of all his problems.
He's telling you what YOU have to change. Well the last time I checked, a marriage involves two people. I'm sure he had his faults as well but he's made no mention of them.
My suggestion is to stay "busy" and cut down on the time going out with him. You don't want to play his games do you? Start showing that you have better things to do than wait on him hand and foot. You might think it will drive him away, but it won't. Right now he doesn't respect you.
Are you still being intimate with him?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
