You are in shock right now and you need to give yourself time to calm down and create a plan. You need to think about:
1. what is best for your child 2. what is best for you 3. how to achieve those
Keep your cards close to your chest right now. Don't reveal what you know because knowledge is power. Whatever plan you come up will probably require several steps. Act from your logic and intelligence, not your impulses.
Take care of yourself. One day at a time.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
