Update: She said she failed the poly and didnt take the F**king money and doesn't want to come home right now. She says without the job now she has nothing! She wants to call her mom and dad too. _________________________ Me, 44 W,39 S,6 D,6 Married June 16, 1989 Wife wants mediation divorce ASAP.
My heart goes out to you.
You have gotten some good advice.
Your wife is incredibly self destructive. So self destructive that her parents have called her on it. So self destructive that she is now on the verge of being in trouble with the police.
It is time for you to save your children and that means giving her the "mediation divorce ASAP." Once you have saved your children and established a safe living situation for them, you can try to help you wife in away that will not destroy your children's future.
Good luck to you and your family.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.