BG: I am SO SORRY! I know exactly how you feel as I've been in your shoes before. It's extremely hurtful to read these kinds of things that your H has sent to another woman. There is no pain like it known to man/womankind! Just know you WILL get through it! You WILL be OK!

I don't know that I have a whole lot of advice to give at the moment other than you have to find your self respect at ALL costs, now more than ever! It will serve you well in the days to come.

If you can hold off on saying anything to H, definitely do so. You want to be prepared and in control when you confront him! You also want to get legal advice to ensure the security of you and your daughter!