While readings CD's thread, I came up with a very similar question to his regarding the 180.
I feel like all my actions and words to her lately have been very firm. She originally said that I'm cold and that I make her feel like she can't do anything right. The interactions lately just reinforce these characteristics. Or maybe I'm just feeling that way because I opened up the affair.
I'm just worried that she'll continue to think that I can't change.


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done