While readings CD's thread, I came up with a very similar question to his regarding the 180. I feel like all my actions and words to her lately have been very firm. She originally said that I'm cold and that I make her feel like she can't do anything right. The interactions lately just reinforce these characteristics. Or maybe I'm just feeling that way because I opened up the affair. I'm just worried that she'll continue to think that I can't change.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done