Sounds very familiar and many of us here have seen very similar circumstances. I would also suggest you post your story in the newcommers section as that area sees the most traffic.

A great start would be to stop what you are doing, step back and educate yourself. Read Divorce Remedy, ask specific questions of the experienced members here (see sandi's, robx and gucci's posts). Perpare yourself for the rollercoaster ride and start disconnecting and working on yourself.


Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08