Well, these things are complicated and take time...they don't resolve overnight and we all go through a myriad of emotions in the process. One night we are feeling good and confident and crying the next... it's all part of the experience, unfortunately. Seems to me Puppy just doesn't get around to things as much, I don't think it's a personal slight, but just my opinion. The only person I have heard from consistently in my sitch is Allen - and he's been a great help! (Not complaining.)
I will post my big email back/forth from H next. Warning - it's long! LOL. And - I will admit it was from before I found this site or read DR. Plus, it is possibly a little softer than others may suggest. However, I had no proof of any kind of A but the start up of an EA, I believe. H actually sent me a text meant for an old GF to me by mistake after weeks of "ILYBNILWY" and saying he thought he wanted out. Also, at the time I didn't know anything about exposing. SO: take it for what it's worth. I'm pretty proud of the way I handled it, overall, considering I had no help with it. :-)
