I'll take the email you have as I think I may use it. I'm guessing she is coming home to pack her stuff for the big "Affair Holiday". Makes me sick to my stomach.
So, if she goes anywhere NEAR R talk, I wann drop the Dobson bomb.
And still sent the text on the drive telling her I know of the A.
A nice double whammy.
Since I have nothing to lose, I'm also going to call her mom and aunt. Warn them to watch her behavior and tell them that "though I love my W and I completely accept my 50% of the responsibility for the deterioration of the marriage, the reason our family will be destroyed is ONLY because of W's affair. If she stops it NOW, I may consider working on it with her. I don't know."
So anything Dobson-esque you have, I'll read and use with gratitude.
I came across this in my "Excerpts from this site" ( I call the document "Here")
Yes, I now see it. It isn't going to work. I now realize that you really don't love me. I now realize that you are saying that it just isn't there for you and you just don't feel the feelings you want to feel to be in a romantic relationship. I now realize that you believe that you may have NEVER been in love with me. I don't know what took me so long to understand that. It suddenly hit me that it probably irritates you to no end just to give me a hug. I NOW get it. I agree. It is never going to work when a person feels like that. It wouldn't be fair to either one of us. I am not even sure how I feel anymore about you after all that has happened. And I deserve a better relationship than this. From this point on I promise you that I am going to stop trying. I should have realized this a long time ago."
Thanks in advance and I appreciate you recent increase in posts to my thread.
