Many experts on this forum say that the WAS needs to regain respect in the LBS. I thought a lot about that. I can say that my W hasn't been talkative at all during our last phone contacts. I usually would ask questions without much of a reply coming from my W.

I have to say that I decided to go dark for the past 3 weeks because I was kind of tired of trying to elicit any type of response from my W. So I figure if she doesn't want to talk, then maybe I should just quit talking myself and waste my time trying.

Can going dark and making a stand about it send a message to the WAS that I'm tired of her non-responsive attitude, so I am "openly" showing thru going dark that I'll just shut up from now on and regain some respect by not subjecting myself to her silence? Does this make sense?

JR


Me:44
WAW:43
Children S13,S11,S7
Married 17 yrs
W left JUN 08
W filed JAN 09
D proceedings dismissed AUG 09
W refiles 1 MAR 11