Chuck, it sure sounds like your W has something pretty self detructive going on right now. I would probably be searching the house for anything inappropriate(the cash, pills, etc) and if you find anything, call a lawyer at the minimum or just call the police. They may be coming to search later depending on the poly results anyway. I think a call to your L first thing in the am is imperitive to protect yourself and your kids. You don't want to get caught up in anything she's illegally done.
