Just do what YOU want and be an adult.. that's all you have to do... It may make a difference it might not...
You need to let go of the analysis for a bit and just ask yourself what YOU want... do you WANT the house or do you want to sell it?
I honestly would be telling her she's not welcome there right now anyhow if she can't manage divorce like an adult.. and she hasn't been... tell her and be civil but firm :
You can't have a civilized divorce, you act like a spoiled hurtful little child and I don't want to be around that. Or something like that... I understand you are upset, and don't tell me you aern't... Or you woudlnt be so angry all the time.. But you can MANAGE that upset like an adult or otherwise... And lying and internet sex and hurling venom at me isn't adult... You and I deserve a better divorce than that...
