I doubt your H will file. He seems to want it both ways -- the family to fall back on and the freedom to do whatever with whoever.

Plus, as you said, he's in a nice spot financially.

I'm guessing you'll have to do it.

Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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