Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

So on Friday I will come home late and just say I'm not ready to discuss it.

And then she will run right back to her friends house.


Any suggestions on what I should counter with?

Her choices are

1) sell the house NOW

2) her move out and get her own place

She keeps writing and messaging people that she KNOWS she HAS to do this in order for her to be happy. I was never the ONE, that she just settled for me ect.

I don't know how much I have to bargain with. She keeps telling me that I am just trying to hang onto her by not selling the house.