I've been here awhile and I don't know if my H is a WAS or MLC. I finally got to a place it doesn't matter. I do what I do for me, our D's and oddly enough, for him. Not in the way you may think though. Not out of a drive to "win him back" etc. It's b/c this is exactly what I'd do for my best friend. When it's all said and done, I have to live with me.
