[quote]Romeo - you said your STBX is pretty handy... my neighbor (male) was telling me a while back I was becoming too independent and it would turn men off. I thought that was a very strange thing to say! I have no patience for skittish women who act like they can't do anything... so annoying! I would drop over dead trying before I asked my H to do ANYTHING for me. And then I still wouldn't ask![/quote]

Damn. read this after I posted. I feel that way now, in the moment.

But is your neighbor male or female?

And in the Art of Seduction, they mention that when women or men do something that the opposite sex normally does, we tend to find it alluring. Like men who carry their babies or push strollers...very sexy!!! I agree 100%! (But there is a line...men who wear lipstick or high heels...so not sexy! guess I am close minded, lol!)


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004