g450, I too DB'd my butt of and got nado for it as far as saving my marriage! But, by doing it I developed new interests, activities and a new respect for myself. And, in my case, my wife actually noticed and was impressed with the changes I made in my life. She saw a man who could survive and would survive without her, not a whimpering bowl of jelly who is nothing without her. That's the way I want her to see me! Now back to Romeo
