Just found out she already filed

[g450]

Yes it's history now.

But had I know this was going on I could have busted the affair Puppydog style. That is the approach that he preaches to help save the marriage.

But you have a point. In my case it may not have given me any more of a chance as she was done.

And yes I would have DB'd my butt off. I did. Didnt do much good.