Did she know how to change lightbulb pre-D? No. I didn't know that at the time, though -- I was always the one who changed them. She could recognize when a bulb was burned out in a lamp, say, but inside a fixture like you have in a bathroom? For all she knew there were pixies inside of it.

Anyway, it's all mox nix at this point.

I spent the better part of the last week running numbers and scenarios, and they all add up to....I can't afford to live here -- not with shared custody, and not on what I'm paid.

Time to cowboy up and enjoy my last year of active parenting.