How do you see my thought path Twink? I'm curious because there is nothing easy about the path I've chosen.
PEI, I know that. None of this is easy for any of us, regardless of the path we choose through it. And you're correct that I can't possibly know your entiire thought path. I only recognized a small portion of it.
I was referring to what Jack and I read the same way -- your apparent conclusion that you were not meant to be together from the start. I walked those few feet myself at one point, and yes, it would have made it easier for me to believe that that was the reason our S was inevitable. Predictable, inevitable fate. Should have seen it, now get over it. As I thought about it, though, I realized that to believe it, I would have to lie to myself about the truth of our M. For our first 30+ years together, except for a couple of tough times, we were very good together on every level, and I couldn't deny that. That's all I was saying. I tried to make it easier on myself by rewriting our history myself, and I just couldn't do it.
I wouldn't want you to choose your path on anything less that the truth. I'm not saying you have. I'm just asking you to be sure.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
