Depending on the results of your call, you might consider coming up with a script for a text or email to H stating your position re: the D.
Something like: I can appreciate that things for you have changed a great deal and you are no doubt feeling pressure to change our situation. However, you made certain promises to me that have been broken with recent events. I cannot be forced into making life altering decisions regarding the future of our family while still reeling from the pain that you caused. I do not intend to sign any paperwork at this time.
At least that might keep him from calling so much for awhile. By the way, since you've said that you have financial and visitation agreements in place, how will the D paperwork affect your situation?
