Originally Posted By: g450

My only regret was not putting a keylogger on her laptop as soon as she told me she was moving into my Son's old bedroom.

Hindsight is 20/20.


Why g450? How would knowing that have made any difference? Didn't her moving into your son's old room WITHOUT YOU give you some kind of clue already? I dunno, sometimes I think we sit there and say "if only I'd known...." but really what difference would it have made? So you'd have moved out and started grieving a few months earlier. Big deal! Maybe in the the big picture of divorce it's just a small drop in a big pond which we choose to turn into a tidal wave. If you had of known maybe you would have stayed and DB'd anyway, I did. I say put the "if only I'd's" behind you, it's history. smile


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White