Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

She's trying to get things back where they were still... Living at home with you STILL... so she can USE your money, LIE to you, and have SEX chats in private...

She has WANTED to move out since day 1. But because of finances, it wasn't possible. NOW, she has the option to live elsewhere and she is finally taking it. And she will have that option while her parents help her. So essentially, she will be having her own place now.

She wants to sell this house as FAST as possible. She would sell it YESTERDAY. And she is dead serious about it.

HOWEVER, she thought she would have him to run to when this all happened.

But I do believe that she wants out of this house extremely badly.

c. Let her life with you platonically for an indefinite amount of time

She has said repeatedly that she can't live with me anymore. She HATES being home, and I have confirmed this by messaging and texts to other people.

She just wants to get me to sell this house so she can move forward with the divorce. She SEES me stalling with the house as a way to "keep her close" or smother her.

I will not allow you to disrespect me in my own home like that anymore. I am sorry you have to leave, but you can't be a civilized adult so you will have to find residence elsewhere until you own your behaviour and correct it like I am doing

She doesn't CARE that she disrespects me. That's how far gone she is. She thinks because its "over" that whatever she does is OK.

Now more than EVER, her living on her own or with a friend will REINFORCE that thinking, where she thinks "Hey I am on my own, I can bang whoever I want now".