WOmen and men will try to trivialize their affair and the chit chat and claim "I would have worked with you but not NOW that you violated MY privacy"...
Oh that was the FIRST exposure. AFTER that one she said she was COMPLETELY DONE, and only stayed in the house because of financial reasons.
Then she kept pursuing the OM and they started up again. Then I RE-EXPOSED. When she found out, that is when today she went to her friends and gave me the selling ultimatum.
She said "We aren't together anymore, so you could have taken the high road with him".
"I only wanted some FUN with him. If not him, then some other guy will blank me".
"You just don't get that this marriage is over. I am NOT coming back, and SOME OTHER guy will want me".
ect, ect, ect.
Oh in her mind she is so far out the door on the marriage that ANYTHING is ok to do with other men. She is REALLY sexually frustrated, and WILL use the opportunity of living out of the house to have sex.
That is why I am worried about her living on her own. She has sexually matured over the years, and her sex drive has peaked. Some of the conversation with the OM lead me to believe that she is ready to really experiment sexually.
I don't see how that helps me have ANY chance of saving my marriage, especially when she is soooooo far gone.
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 07/13/1012:05 AM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
