Do you REALLY think she's just gonig to go on the internet and "have a good time" and then come BACK and work on her marriage?
These are escape strategies... you've been reading SomeGuy's thread so you KNOW this...
WOmen and men will try to trivialize their affair and the chit chat and claim "I would have worked with you but not NOW that you violated MY privacy"... They will threaten and range and everything else... But the fact is that road is NOT a healthy one and there' divorce on the end of it anyways.
You can let them have the run of the town and wait it out in silence and HOPE to GOD they decide after all that running around that YOU are a GREAT guy and they come back... But I have serious doubts that will work...
It MIGHT work if there's kids involved... You also have to decide how much BS you can take. Don't be fooled. This IS bullying.. She's pushing you into a corner and trying to hurt you to get a kick out of it to make HER feel better...
Do you think being her punching bag for a few weeks and letting her run around in singles bars is giong to win her back...?
Nope... Not from what I have read or seen here...
What SHE wants is for YOU to work on the marriage while SHE sabotages it beyond repair.
