You guys are great! I realise the truth about me is out: I love throwing things at my WH when he talks about the OW! Oh deary me...!!! blush
Your posts RED crack me up every time grin; please keep the wisdom an humour coming, it really helps!
NM, you are right. All this is for the meantime is a slight improvement in communication. Thankyou for keeping me in check about my anger. I still have a long way to go, a lot to learn about why I chose to react this way when I know better.
Also WH has pulled the wool over my eyes many times in the past since this all started, and though I'd like to beleive he has regrets, has feelings for me that are worthy, that his love for the baby is genuine, but I need to keep a sceptical eye open.
G, if I can keep things calm and collected with WH over the next few weeks, at least in the worst case scenario I will be prouder of how I handled it.

SO Excited Babydoll's boy is here & same b'day as Newmama's !