WHY then does this bother me that he is being so nice?!
B/c you think he's got an agenda. You don't trust that he's being nice "just because". That's would be my take anyway....
Take it for what is is, his being nice. Stop trying to be "psychic" and read between the lines. It will make you nuts. If there's something else "put on the table", trust that you can and will handle whatever it is then.
