Yes Allen, I read it. I'm going to read that section on this part again now. Well I am going to be gone tomorrow when he is here, and if he is still here when I drive back to the area, I will leave again till he is gone. He'll be leaving himself at 3am Wed. morning and he'll be gone for a week, so I'll be ok here (and actually do have friends coming by different days).

I have to tell you that rereading that email, well I wondered when the anger was ever going to hit me, and jeez did it just hit to a really kicked up degree. My head is saying "I hate you you SOB, you self-righteous smug SOB who ruined my life", and I guess because I'm feeling that way that I absolutely MUST avoid all contact or else things will even be worse. I imagine it's never productive towards saving your marriage to tell your spouse you hate him, right?

Ok another question since he will probably come in the house while I'm not here. Half his stuff is still in his closet and I've been gathering some of his other things and boxing them because they're tough to look at all the time. Do I leave those boxes in the closet for him to find? Do I move them to another place so he doesn't find them? What would be better?


M45
Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11
Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy
"Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying