"Personal opinion, but I would not say this to W. Sounds a bit condescending. I would just mention that you really like having her back in the bedroom. How much more comfortable having her next to you feels."


This is why I love this place....Yes you are right...I am a person that sometimes does things "in the spur of the moment" and sometimes I write down thoughts here that "at the moment" sounded good. I do this on purpose becasue of people like you giving me great feedback. (Thanks) but also when I read them the next day sometimes they do not sound so great to me either,

With that said I am not mentioning anything yet...

It is really sad that when things like this happen (affairs) that little jokes and teasing take on new meanings. And something that may have been said 5 years ago jokingly when we were fooling around… “Ya well you should have married your old BF” Now can’t be said… Another example is I WAS thinking about telling W “I have a confession to make. I have been sleeping with this beautiful woman now for two days and it feels really nice. Don’t worry we have not had sex but I am afraid it is only a matter of time”
BUT then again bringing up “sleeping with someone” NOW has a new meaning.
I will admit I am holding back and I know this is what I need to do. But it is kind of like getting a new car and having to drive SLOW for the first 500 miles…….braking it in...


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know