Does DB'ing work if OW is playing the victim?!?!

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like you said it's only a threat. In fact my name is on our lease agreement, his is only mentioned in passing as the co-tenant. So legally, i know i'm better off than him.

For my 180, I'll stop nagging him about his excessive use fo air-conditioning, leaving TV or lights on when he's not in the room and other stuff around the house. These are the main complaints of H about me. The other complaint is my lack of interest in sex. This is something i'm not sure if I should improve on during this time. Any advice? I know for sure that H's A didn't involved too much sex either as the OW is married and has never been sure of the A.

As for GAL, I'm very close to getting a job - this will be a big step as I have been out of work for a year. After that, I'll start looing into acquiring some hobbies, something i've not had ever. I've already found a couple of courses I want to start once I get the job.

I've more friends than my H and so I have a better social life than H. I've always invited H when I go out, but he often declined. I'm wondering if I should cut down on my social life while he's getting over the A?