Her mother thinks the OM wasn't an interference or a probelm/

HER MOTEHR isnt' reading the conversations those two were having WAS SHE?

Her MOTHER has NO FREAKIN CLUE what her dear daughter's been up to... she doens't want to KNOW remember?

SO STOP listening to what her mother thinks.. her MOTHER is OUT of the LOOP

YOu need to trust that your wife is as upset and frightened and hurt and confused as YOU ARE right now...

SHE had to leave her HOME of TEN YEARS... SHe's HURTING right now man...

You need to let that RUSH THROUGH her... SHE left and SHE has to deal... You just keep on goin with your regular day...

Don't accept either of her offers.. come up with ideas you like and work with them...

She's gonna stew for a few days... let her stew...