But it still hurts that she is gone from the house. I can't help that. I am TRYING TO. But what she said about "if not him then some other guy who wants to blank me".
Even her mom says that there is absolutely positively no hope for this marriage.
But when she was packing and talking to me, I DID NOT SHOW ONE BIT OF EMOTION.
Her mom seems to think that my wife wasn't leaving the marriage because of the OM. But I guess I will NEVER know unless I had exposed him and MAYBE start to lift her fog.
Did you wife leave the house Allen? My wife appears so over and done with this marriage that EVERYONE around her sees it.
Even the toughest people need a moment to let their feelings out. I have some dark, dark days ahead of me.
My wife even used her friend's Facebook account to try and contact the OM.
She just let the insults and hurting statements FLY at me. Oh I had my suit of armor on, but when she left I had to take it off and look at the billion dents.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed