We aren't telling you to give up here QS, but you have to get yoru perspective back...

So she moved out... SHE is gonna miss her home...

IGNORE her mother at this point... Her mother's a pathetic enabler... I am not saying be mean to her, but don't listen to her mother's ADVICE..its CRAP

Her MOTHER has NO WAY of assessing your wife's mental state right now... she has NO IDEA what her daughter's going through... She just listens to her whimper and throws $$ to shut her up...

You have to shut out the negatives and keep pushing man...

Keep pushing... Your wife may come crawling back six months from now when she's broke in some cheap arse apartment...

She may have to very well hit ROCK BOTTOM to realize what damage she's done and take ownership of it...