"It was the right thing to do to protect my M, and assist my W in maintaining boundaries, and showing my presence to the OP. I didn't have to say a word to either of them--my presence was enough of an influence"
YES I THINK YOU HAVE IT......Actions DO speak louder than words......
As for Doing things you really do not feel like doing for someone… Isn’t that called Love?
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know