The only answer I have is the one I am preparing for me because I'm confronting and exposing this week-
How do you save a marriage when....?
You keep working on YOU and get your life back. yeah, Divorce is gonna suck. But the sooner YOUR life is in order, the sooner you get past it, And if by chance she comes out of the ether before YOU ARE DONE, then explore what's left to rebuild.
Do you or I REALLY deserve to be treated like this? Did you or I force them to do what our W's are doing? Can we actually control what they are doing? Are these the actions of W we actually want to have?
The answers are all NO.
I hope you can throw a 2x4 my way when it's my turn.
