antlers, I feel for you.

Yes this is hard but believe me you'll survive and later thrive. Jul 28th will pass and it'll be Jul 29th and you'll look back and say 'that wasn't as bad as I thought'...then you'll go on to think about other things. Us men have this nasty habit of putting all our emotional and physical energy into our spouses and families. When they're gone we're usually left with no one. That deep emotional connection is left severed. Women on the other hand can reconnect and 'talk' about stuff with their girlfriends that we have a hard time with. It's a widespread situation here and I'm in the same boat as you as well as many others.

Do take care of yourself, who else will especially right now? Hang in there.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again