But...much ado about nothing. For the moment anyway.
WAW did come over yesterday, but was in great pain due to a severe arthritis flare. I just didn't think it was a good day for an R talk of any kind, unless she brought it up. When she's in so much pain she can barely walk, she is understandably not in a great mood to begin with.
Besides, I have been thinking that if I said something right after the vacation, she just might see it as a knee jerk reaction, not something I have really thought about. So, I am going to start with consistent DB actions and then when she comments, or soon regardless, I will let know what I have decided.