You have a right to deal with it when you are ready.

I feel the same way about my H I don't want to talk about the R right now, he got irritated but oh well the way I see it things aren't so great. I may be an XW soon so what do I care if I pissed him off he can only divorce me once. I gotta think about how I feel and how I get through this. As should you.

She is gonna do what she wants whether you sit down and talk or not. You have a right to say this is not what I want and I will not discuss this with you do what you feel is necessesary and put the ball all the way in her court. You don't have to be mean but you dont have to take part in the demise of your M either.

M37 H30
D1
S18 (previous relationship)
M 1yr
Bomb 6/25/10

I keep reminding myself I am strong even if I don't feel it. I know from my past this is true. I might just get a tattoo to remind me.