I'm not surprised that she acted like she did. She's trying to hurt you because you held her feet to the fire. She may be angry, but the alternative is lack of respect. Go with RESPECT, every time, even if it makes her angry! Trust me on that...been there, done that, and your response to her is (As Allen says...) "Everything I've done, I've done for the sake of our marriage. I won't live in an open marriage!" Although, that may be a mix of Allen and PDT. Not sure. LOL