Cathy, I have had these convos too... I think it is either H wanting to feel less guilty about going places and doing things if you are out doing things, or H wanting to know your whereabouts just because he wants to know, or wanting to know your schedule so he won't be doing things to run into you.
I have decided not to give him information anymore. Of course, if you tell him where you were,that is okay, but as for the future, I'm not telling him. Not being ugly, just not volunteering information.
And I think you were the one that told me stop trying to figure out someone who has no idea what they are doing themselves. Thinking this has some deeper meaning is probably not the case!
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.