Sorry girl I could not help to chime in again. Look - I only push the no regret thing because I do not want you to look back 2 yrs from now and realize that maybe just maybe you called it a day a little too soon. Only you know the answer.
For me, as I have posted...I am not sure what the hell you call where I am. I really have no idea. I know ONE thing..and that is that it is time for ME to live and for my W to live. If that means apart then so be it. If that means that she will change her mind...well I will cross that bridge when and if it happens.
I read on Shelbel post that sometime you must swim on your own. You know something...giving up on your M or filing for a D to me does not force you to swim on your own (now I am not saying that this is what Shelbel was trying to say - sorry shel). What really forces you to swim on your own is YOU. ONLY YOU. Not me, not Grit, not Jack, no fuc*ing body on these boards. Only YOU.
Do me a favor - don't respond right now. YOu will want to defend yourself - you don't have to. Only do what YOU want to do and DO IT with NO REGRETS.
I have been married 17 years to my W. She has changed - so have I. We both are very different people. She has decided to file. She made her decision. She owns it. I made a decision as well. To live life to the fullest. To live my life with no regrets. That is not to say I will not nor have not made mistakes - Please PEI - don't make a mistake. Take your time.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
