As far as scheduling, I like R2C's approach there as well. The only thing I would add is to back off on all the excursions. You really need to be saving money. Certainly not giving your W money to blow on trips with the kids to ease her guilt about what she's doing or funding her new single life.
I 180ed and did excursions with the kids. Enjoyed my time with them....What is better for your kids: $300 spent on a great weekend, or having mommy and daddy paying $400-$800 an hour to lawyers to fight......
Control YOUR money. Let W spend hers....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
