This morning my W came by the house because it was my weekend and my D4 was sick.
While she was here she was here I told I had rented the house out. She asked me to hold off because she wanted us to see a financial planner to make sure it was the right decision. I reminded her that it was the only decision at this point because the house is worth just as much as we owe since we just refinanced.
Then she was up set when she found out I was looking to buy something for myself. She started to cry a little and asked if I would help her move this weekend. I told her no because it was my weekend and I planned to use it for me. She has always found a reason for me to come over on my weekends, well that will be no more.
She then called me later this afternoon and asked me where I was getting the money for the down payment on my new place. She also didn't like where I was looking to move because it wasn't where she wanted me to move.
She told me that I had to think about my D15 and how she would get home from school. Wow, I have to think about all of this? That's pretty funny since this was all her decision.
As a matter of fact, last time I checked she no longer had a say in anything I do. Through all of this she's still trying to control me.
Just tell her that she has to trust the decisions you will be making now because you've had to go along with all of the decisions she has made recently that affected you and your family.
