He sent me a massage saying how little he respected me.
He then sent her a message saying not to contact her ANYMORE.
However, it really hit the fan as far as she is concerned. I came home today and she was packed. She informed me that she was moving out and we can either sell the house this month, or she was getting an apartment. She already has a place picked out. She informed me that she will no longer sleep here either.
HER PARENTS will HELP her out financially with the apartment, and she says that they are completely disgusted with me and want nothing to do with me.
I know not to believe that, but I STOOD MY GROUND and DID NOT SHOW EMOTION.
I am just wondering what happens next?
DB'er - you did great. Its not done yet. Don't get sucked into the drama and handle your business. Right now the business is taking care of yourself, and closure of the business you started. I'd send the parents a letter explaining what you did and why, possibly send some of the evidence to show that it wasn't your imagination and you did what any man should trying to save his family.
On the other things read some of the 'robx' postings. You have to take care of your physical and mental health. I'd be in the gym, playing ball and I'd taken up a martial art and put in a minimum of 6 months in something that will prove to be useful in a street style environment.
GAL hard like a beast, your in bachelor mode. Your wife will come to her senses later, because if the other guy has any sense he's going to push her away. So she's on her own. At the moment it looks like she was using you for "cake" and the other guy was the real prize.
You be the prize. I want to see what other people have to say about this.
