Told H we had to talk, but of course he would only text so I said I need to know what he wants because of financial stuff. I still think it is crap that he complains about giving me $500 and doesn't have enough to move out of his parents when he only has one other bill each month, which is a $200 bill. That means he still is netting $1100 a month...but somehow he has no money...
I just kept asking questions. What do you want to do? Do you want to stay married? Etc. He kept trying to evade the questions, but I just kept asking. Finally he said he didn't want to be married to me and only has stay married because he didn't want to officially leave S and I. I told him he left us April 1, 2009. Then he also said what everyone and I have thought. He doesn't want to D because he wants to still be a family, but he doesn't want to be married. Too bad, you can't have both.
I finished by telling H I am sorry again for specific things. That I love him, and that I want him to file ASAP so we can both be done with this and get a fresh start ASAP.
He never responded once I said sorry and file because he messed up and has nothing to say. I wouldn't be surprised if he and OW get a place together and she just not D her H, or she will D her H and they will be married as soon as both D's are finalized. Oh well...
On with life...
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
