Started to GAL. Friday I went up to see some girlfriends and stayed over. I didn't tell my H that I was doing that so when he came home in the morning I wasn't there for once. I am not sure if he called b/c I didn't see any missed calls on my phone but when I listened to messages later that day there was an odd message from him. He sounded depressed and was just wondering what the plan was for the day.
I went to work Saturday and then came home. He asked if I had a good time friday night and then asked me what my plans were for the day. I then told him that friends were coming down to visit. He seemed surprised and literally 30 seconds later the doorbell went and I went out with them and took our D. Came home later and was giving D a bath and then H came home. I didn't hear him come in and then realized he was standing in the door way watching us. He was smiling.
I thought finally a change. He was even wearing the watch that i had given him for our anniversary last year. But the good signs didn't last long. He made me angry later b/c I noticed his phone was different and instead of just asking him I looked over at him a couple of times and he got angry with me and told me to stop staring at him. If i look at him the wrong way I can screw things up! It is so tiring!
Again at 12:30pm that night he came to me to tell me he was going out and I told him I was going to go out. He got very angry and then said he would take our D to his sisters! He is nuts at 12:30pm he is going to disrupt her sleep and drop her off somewhere so he can do whatever it is he is doing!
It ended in he will file for divorce, he hates me and b/c I am not being nice to him he will not give me anything i.e. I won't be able to have the house.
M=42 H=51 Common-law 6yr Children: 11yr old daughter (previous marrIage) 6yr old son Bomb dropped January 2013
