W came home 7 am to her place today, I called her to get together about D14, and she agreed to meet before I went to work. I went in with the idea of just getting it squared away as far as D14 reporting to me when W chooses to ‘leave town’(OM over 1 hour away). Unfortunately I skirted a couple other issues I didn't intend to, but at least thier out in the open also.
She had sent me an e-mail with D14 discipline spelled out, obviously worked on by OM and her, way to wordy and not motherly but a smidge. She said I should read and make amendments if I like, and that we don’t have to give it to her at all.(overly stern in her opinion, OM influence, without admitting he helped). I think it will be presented as written, so D14 can fell warm and fuzzy about W and OM(not, lol).
As far as the meeting went, W looked like she got drug through a keyhole, and was not talkative at all. She did mention that her best friend did contact her about D14, and was obviously bothered by it, wanting to know how they got together. I told her I had a hand in it for D14 health and well-being.
Apparently she is going to alter the standard amount she puts into joint account, so everything might escalate a bit from the financial standpoint. I will need to monitor it closely.
from my fortune cookie,,,,,,"Adversity is the test for strong men" Me -44 WAW - 43 D14 D8 EA/PA mid May,2010 WAW moved out- 07/01/10 WAW filed 07/01/10