ok-
One more question. How does one respond to being served papers... either from her in person, or by special-delivery?

I need to be ready for the possible scenarios...

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done